The Real 12 Days of Christmas

The Real 12 Days of Christmas

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Britain’s Forgotten Midwinter Traditions

For most of us, the “Twelve Days of Christmas” begins the moment the first supermarket playlist trills into life sometime in November. We shop, we wrap, we rush, and by Boxing Day the nation is collectively exhausted. Convinced that Christmas is over before the turkey leftovers have even cooled.

We’ve been told that the Twelve Days of Christmas belong to a song filled with leaping lords and golden rings. But as we rediscover Britain’s midwinter traditions, you start to notice: the song has nothing to do with the real 12 Days at all. Those true days, rooted in liturgical time rather than commercial countdown, begin on 25 December and run through to Twelfth Night on 5 January, with Epiphany on 6 January closing the season.

They form a pocket of winter wonder that once shaped life across England, Scotland, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Isle of Man. Filled with music, misrule, local customs, saintly celebrations and, occasionally, barely organised chaos.

The Twelve Days of Christmas (also called Christmastide or Twelvetide) were, and still are, a historic Christian tradition, deeply rooted in liturgy rather than just the famous cumulative carol.

What Are the Twelve Days?

In Western Christianity (Catholic, Anglican, Lutheran, etc.), the Twelve Days mark the festive season from Christmas Day (December 25) as the first day, running through January 5 (Twelfth Night), with January 6 as Epiphany, celebrating the Magi’s visit to baby Jesus (and in some traditions, his baptism or other manifestations).This isn’t the pre-Christmas buildup (that’s Advent); it’s the joyful aftermath, a time of feasting, carols, and reflection on the Incarnation.

Many churches still observe it liturgically, with special feasts like St. Stephen (Dec 26), Holy Innocents (Dec 28), and Holy Family.

4th Century Celebrations

The tradition emerged in the early Church as a way to bridge two major feasts: the Nativity (Western emphasis) and Epiphany (originally stronger in the East). By the 4th century, both dates were celebrated, and the interval between them became a sacred season. It was formally proclaimed in 567 at the Council of Tours, urging clergy to make the days from Christmas to Epiphany a time of joy and prohibiting fasting.

Medieval Europe turned it into a vibrant period of merriment, “misrule,” wassailing, mummers’ plays, and Twelfth Night revelry (think Shakespeare’s play).In the East (Orthodox), a similar 12-day period exists, but Epiphany (Theophany) often emphasises Jesus’ baptism more than the Magi.

The Twelve Days peaked in the Middle Ages through the Victorian era, blending religious observance with folk customs (e.g., leaving decorations up until Twelfth Night or Candlemas on Feb 2, taking them down early was bad luck!). Decline began in the 17th century with Puritan reforms: in England (1640s-50s under Cromwell) and colonial New England (e.g., banned in Boston 1659), Christmas itself was suppressed as “pagan.”

Even after restoration, the full season faded. By the 19th-20th centuries, commercialisation shifted focus to pre-Christmas shopping and December 25 as the climax. In the US, it’s largely forgotten outside liturgical circles; in the UK, some traditions are still popular (like pantomimes or “Boxing Day”).

The 12 Days of Christmas across Britain

Let’s walk the days together and uncover the customs that once filled Britain’s midwinter with sound, scent and a sense of shared celebration.

Almost every region, from the misty fells of Cumbria to the salt-lashed coast of Cornwall, from the Welsh borderlands to the islands of Scotland, stitched its own flavours into the fabric of the season. From Wassailing orchards to baking Twelfth Night cake, from the eerie beauty of the Mari Lwyd to the fiery spectacle of Hogmanay.

Today, many of these traditions lie dormant, waiting for rediscovery. And as interest in local heritage, UK-made goods, regional food, cultural travel and slow seasonal living grows, the Twelve Days provide a beautifully traditional antidote to over-commercialised Christmas fatigue.

Christmas Day – 25 December

Midnight to Morning: The Real Beginning of the Twelve Days

While modern Britain often treats Christmas Day as the spectacular finale, historically it was the true beginning, the opening door to nearly a fortnight of merriment, ritual and local tradition.

England: Welcoming the Mummers

Elsewhere, Mummers’ Plays, comic, chaotic folk dramas, made their way from house to house. Local craft groups, amateur dramatic societies, and living-history performers often revive them each December, offering perfect opportunities for cultural travellers.

Wales: Plygain – Songs Before Sunrise

The Welsh tradition of Plygain, a candlelit early-morning carol service held between 3 and 6 a.m. is still cherished in parts of mid-Wales. Rural churches, Welsh choirs and local community halls frequently host these atmospheric services, often followed by homemade mince pies from local bakeries and flasks of strong tea.

Scotland: A Quiet Start After Centuries of Silence

Scotland’s Christmas was legally discouraged for centuries. Only in 1958 did it become a public holiday, and older Scots may still recall “Daft Days” celebrated quietly rather than lavishly. Today, independent Scottish food producers, winter markets and regional heritage centres often highlight this unique history, an excellent hook for travellers seeking something different.

26 December – St Stephen’s Day / Boxing Day

The Day of Boxes, Birds and Bold Disguises

Boxing Day may now mean sales and sport, but historically it came layered with customs far older and more peculiar.

The Wren Boys of Ireland & the Isle of Man

Across Ireland and the Isle of Man, groups known as Wren Boys, sometimes “Wran Boys”, paraded through villages wearing straw disguises, carrying a decorated wren (now, thankfully, always artificial). They sang for coins and goodwill, echoing medieval traditions of mumming and midwinter misrule.

Visitors today can still find revived Wren Day parades, complete with handmade straw costumes by local artisans, independent folk bands, and community craft workshops offering straw-weaving sessions.

England: A Day for Hunts & Hospitality

In England, 26 December marked the traditional start of the fox-hunting season (today replaced by drag hunts). Country pubs, rural inns, heritage stables and small equestrian centres often host festive meets, drawing visitors seeking an authentic countryside Christmas atmosphere.

Wales: Hunting the Wren

“Hunting the Wren” existed in Wales but typically on Twelfth Night/Epiphany (5-6 January), not St Stephen’s Day. In Wales, the ancient custom of Hunting the Wren (known as Hela’r Dryw) danced to a slightly different tune. Here, groups would capture (or symbolically represent) the tiny “king of all birds,” often placing it in a beautifully decorated “wren house”, a ribbon-bedecked box with little windows, and carry it from house to house, singing for coins and good luck.

The Original “Christmas Box

St Stephen’s Day was also the moment when tradespeople received their annual “Christmas box”. Many independent makers and craftspeople still honour the spirit of giving back, offering post-Christmas promotions or charitable donations, a nice angle for shoppers who prefer to support local businesses rather than big-box sales.

27 December – St John the Evangelist

Wine, Blessings & the Vessel Maidens

Traditionally, St John’s Day carried a ritual of blessing wine or spiced ale – a custom still observed in some Catholic communities and revived by a handful of heritage vineyards and microbreweries keen to celebrate old English feast days.

Yorkshire & Lancashire: The Vessel Cup Tradition

Perhaps the most charming tradition was the Vessel Cup or Vessel Maide, where women carried a decorated box containing figures representing Christ Child and St John or with dolls representing Mary and Jesus). They sang from house to house asking for coins. It is a documented but localised custom, now largely extinct except in revivals.

Today, small museums, local craft fairs and regional folk groups often recreate the beautiful wooden vessels, offering workshops that draw in families, makers and festive visitors.

28 December – Holy Innocents / Childermass

Boy Bishops, Playful Parodies & Midwinter Mischief

Holy Innocents, once called Childermass, carried a deeply medieval sense of topsy-turvy play.

The Boy Bishop

In cathedral cities such as York, Salisbury and Hereford, a choirboy was elected “bishop” from 6 December until 28 December. On Childermass, his mock rule ended, sometimes with processions, feasting and mischievous ceremony.

Today, cathedral gift shops, cloisters, choirs and local heritage attractions often run educational tours about medieval liturgy, ideal for families seeking meaning beneath the festive sparkle.

Whipping Day (The Harmless Kind)

Some northern parishes held a light-hearted “Whipping Tuesday” with greenery, symbolising the biblical massacre. While the practice is long gone, storytelling tours and museum explainer sessions often include it when discussing medieval festivities.

29 December – St Thomas Becket

Pilgrimage, Pageantry & Hoodening Horses

St Thomas Becket’s feast was once a major medieval event, drawing pilgrims to Canterbury from every corner of England – merchants, farmers, clergy, travellers, the curious and the devout.

Hoodening in Kent & Sussex

In east Kent, the ancient custom of Hoodening saw a hooded wooden horse visiting local homes. Today, folk performers, community groups and seasonal markets often revive the custom, making it ideal for winter visitors who love local heritage experiences.

Regional craft centres, woodcarvers, puppet-makers and costume workshops often engage with Hoodening events, valuable directory opportunities for linking UK artisans.

30 December – A Quiet Day of Local Oddities

Apple Howling, Rural Riddles & A Breathing Space

Though the church calendar offers no universal feast on 30 December, rural communities filled the gap themselves, often with orchard-based customs.

Somerset & Devon: Apple Howling

A cousin of Wassailing, Apple Howling involved chanting, singing or “howling” at trees to encourage a fruitful year. Today, many orchards, cider houses and small farm shops host winter events tying together food, folklore and family-friendly experiences.

31 December – New Year’s Eve / Hogmanay Eve

Cleansing, Clearing & Preparing the Way

Modern New Year’s Eve may be fireworks and fizz, but historically it was about purification and preparation.

Scotland: Redding the House

In Scotland, Redding the house meant clearing ashes from the hearth, scrubbing floors and ensuring the home was spotless for the New Year. This tradition lives on in many households, and Scottish cleaning brands, homeware makers and housekeeping guides often reference it in seasonal promotions.

Wales: Y Glanhau

Welsh families practised Y Glanhau , “the cleansing”, a deep-clean akin to Redding the house. It remains a lovely, quietly powerful tradition for those who prefer a reflective New Year.

Independent eco-cleaning brands, natural homeware makers, Welsh craftspeople and regional interiors shops can all connect marketing to this theme.

1 January – New Year’s Day / Hogmanay

First-Footing, Coal, Cake & a Fresh Start

There is no more iconic British New Year ritual than First-Footing.

Scotland: The Tall Dark Man with Coal

The “first-foot”, traditionally a tall, dark-haired man, crossed the threshold after midnight bearing gifts:

  • a lump of coal for warmth
  • whisky for good cheer
  • black bun or shortbread for food
  • salt for luck

Many Scottish bakeries still make black bun seasonally, and independent whisky distillers often reference first-footing in festive tastings and tours.

Northern England: Similar Rites

Northern English families followed near-identical customs. Regional breweries, bakeries, and heritage pubs often celebrate the tradition, drawing visitors who love regional quirks.

Wales: Calennig

Welsh children once went door-to-door with decorated apples or oranges, singing for coins until noon – the custom of Calennig. Today, Welsh craft markets often sell handmade Calennig decorations, complete with cloves, greenery and ribbons.

2 – 4 January – The Orchard Days

Quiet Celebrations With Deep Rural Roots

These were quieter days, often filled with low-key Wassailing in Devon and Somerset. Many orchards still host small gatherings, with folk musicians, heritage cider-makers and rural food stalls creating cosy winter experiences.

Tourism boards and local councils often promote these events as gentle alternatives to the intensity of Christmas.

5 January – Twelfth Night

Cake, Crowns, Mischief & the Last Burst of Midwinter Merriment

Twelfth Night was once the riotous climax of the season.

Twelfth Night Cake & The Bean King

Families baked a Twelfth Night cake containing a bean (for the “king”) and a pea (for the “queen”). Whoever found them ruled the night. This tradition has seen modern revival, especially among artisan bakeries, heritage cookery schools and independent cafés.

Wassail Bowls & Winter Gatherings

Orchard wassailing (blessing apple trees for a good harvest) traditionally occurs on Twelfth Night (5 January) or Old Twelfth Night (17 January) in cider regions like Somerset and Devon. The ceremonial wassail bowl, brimming with spiced ale or cider, was passed from guest to guest. Some groups still do today, often joined by local cider-makers, rural food producers, folk musicians and small heritage farms that open their gates for festive tours.

East Anglia: Preparing for Plough Monday

Villages began preparing for Plough Monday, dragging a decorated plough through the village. Many heritage centres and agricultural museums host annual Plough Monday re-enactments.

6 January – Epiphany / Old Christmas Day

The Magi, the Plough & Britain’s “Second Christmas”

Epiphany marked the official close of the Twelve Days, the moment Christmas truly ended.

Old Christmas Day

After the 1752 calendar change from the Julian to the Gregorian calendar, some communities (especially in Cornwall, Wales and northern England) kept celebrating 6 January as Old Christmas Day. Today, local heritage sites, rural churches and living-history groups often explore this curious overlap of calendars.

Staffordshire & Shropshire: Blessing the Plough

Farmers brought ploughs into church to be blessed for the coming year, a ritual revived today by rural charities, agricultural museums and local farming communities.

London: Epiphany at the Chapel Royal

Historically, the royal family held gift-giving ceremonies echoing the Magi. Modern-year equivalents include Epiphany concerts, museum events and seasonal exhibitions exploring the Tudor and Stuart courts.

The Twelve Days Are an Invitation

The real Twelve Days of Christmas are relics of an older Britain, they’re reminders of a slower, deeper, more communal festive rhythm.

Across the UK, from small independent bakeries to heritage orchards, from rural craftsmen to city choirs, from coastal customs to cathedral choirs, the spirit of the Twelve Days is quietly continues. And whether you’re a shopper looking to support British makers, a traveller hungry for local colour, or simply someone who wants to savour the season, these traditions offer a way to reimagine winter.

Not as a race to the 25th December, but as a celebration that stretches, shimmers and lingers into the first days of January.